Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Clearing The Air

I am writing this entry in hopes it will clear the air about misconceptions and fears that many have with anything online. I would be the first to tell people to be cautious, but I also want to state publically the following for ALL to see. If anyone can prove Me wrong, please email Me and let's chat.

It is suggeted that, if you are reading this blog for the first time, you start at the bottom and work up. Be aware - it is LONG. Do NOT attempt to read and digest it all in one try. However it was posted in that order. Enjoy.

1. Do I make money from this site or from the training I do? NO. I never have, nor will I ever make one cent from this. Nor will I allow anyone associated with the training I do make ANY monetary gain from their contribution. This is Free advice, Free training. Yes, the training should always be done here and thus, yes, there is travel and accommodation involved. I do NOT make anything from those either. YOU book them yourself. As a help in finding suitable accommodation here, I have found a local hotel overlooking the sea, which is known more to locals than the general public, that doesn't cost the price of your first born to stay in it, yet it is clean, nice, private, close to everything, and enjoyable. Look at the "Repost of In Person Contract " in this blog and you'll see the criteria used. When, and ONLY when, you make your bookings for training, I will tell you the hotel name and how to access it (which can be viewed online and booked by you online as well).

2. Do I train only one member of a couple? Primarily that depends on the people involved, and the extent of their training needs. But suffice it to say that I have trained both cuckoldresses alone and cuckolds alone. However - their partner is always here with them and nearby as well. The fact that their partner does not wish to be trained is their decision, but their presence is required none the less. ALL training sessions last from approximately 8:15am to approximately 3:00pm.

3. Why do I say the first week of training is to be with the female cuckoldress and Myself alone? It's simple really. That time is primarily used to give the woman a forum for discussion that she previously has not had. In this way, she can discuss, with a somewhat "disinterested third party" her wants, needs, desires, fears, worries, etc. etc. In other words, she is free to talk about ANYTHING that has concerned her in the past, or that she can see to be a problem for her in the future. The vast majority of women NEVER GET THAT CHANCE. When I train, yours will. Like most things, when things like fears or concerns are brought out into the open and discussed rationally, especially with a somewhat "disinterested third party", they tend to disappear.

3.a. I also, if a woman asks, or I can determne she should receive training in, anything sexual, I will find a way to provide that training. I don't just "fuck" women. That is not why they are primarily here for training, nor why I do this. However, if they wish to hone their oral skills, or enticement, or anal skills, or what ever they feel they need help with, I will try to provide that council and training as well.

3.b. and yes, the same holds true for any submissive cuckold. In the second week he gets a training session as well, though it may be necessary to have also his cuckoldress present when I train him. The point is, yes, I will train cuckolds - how to serve, how to fluff, how to do cleanup, how to provide what ever his cuckoldress and her lover require of him.

4. Will I keep in touch after the training? Hopefully yes, I will, via email and also via Yahoo messenger contact. But ONLY if the couple wishes that contact.

5. And maybe this is the most telling and important part of this blog: Why do I do this? Why spend the time trying to make it easier for people to embrace or at least try this lifestyle? Simply because I'm one of those people who enjoys helping other people. It's that simple. I have been involved in this lifestyle as a trainer (and initialy as a bull though I HATE that term), and wish to help others realise that this lifestyle can help them live their fantasy..without destroying their relationship in the process. If she wishes sex with others, and/or he wishes bisexual servitude with others, or he simply wants to know that his partner is having good fulfilling beautiful sex and is satisfied.... and I can help them both achieve that goal, then I have helped someone. THAT is the ONLY reason I do this. There is NO other.

6. I am in Australia on what is known as the Gold Coast of the state of Queensland (look it up online). YES, that is probably a long way from you, but know this: I have successfully trained over 57 couples now, in the last 28 years, from the USA, Canada, the UK, Germany, New Zealand, and Australia. If they came here, and now pass My contact to others to contact Me for the trainig I provide, I must be doing something right or they wouldn't pass on My contact. I do NOT travel any more. If you wish My training YOU come to Me.

7. Where can you contact Me? The email I have set up for this is twofold. There is one account at coupletrainer@gmail.com and another at Sir.Strict@gmail.com . Either is fine to use, though I personally use the second one more. I also can be added to your yahoo messenger as Sir.Strict@yahoo.com (note the difference - the account exists but I never use it except for registering yahoo messenger) . I prefer that you do that ONLY after W/we have talked about your needs.

Thank you for plowing through this section, but hopefully it has helped to answer questions you may have. If you have any questions after reading this blog, email Me and let's discuss it.

Friday, July 27, 2007

Is A Dom or Domme Necessary?

I have been asked this question on numerous occasions over the years by those investigating or starting out in this lifestyle, and though I am a Dom and continue to be a Dom for over 30 years, the true answer is "No". Now, before all the Doms and Dommes in the world have fits, read on.

I have stated on numerous occasions that this lifestyle is for, built by, controlled by, instituted by, and for the enjoyment of the couple involved. In other words, it is the couples responsibilitiy to figure out for themselves if they wish the 3rd party (or parties) to their relationship to be Dominant or not. Some may well wish their partner in this lifestyle to be a Dom or Domme who will guide, nurture, and use the couple as they see fit.

Remember this ONE guiding principal in the cuckold lifestyle: This lifestyle choice should be used to enhance your relationship and marriage, not destroy it. A good and competent Master or Mistress will wish the same for you and your partner.

One advantage of having a Master or Mistress is to fulfill the Dominant role that either or both of you may have. Some also enjoy a level of humiliation attached to their own role in this lifestyle and that also can only be acommodated safely and properly by the use of a Competent Master or Mistress. And yes, I say competent because as in all things, many feel that if they yell or hollar or bluster or use force, they are a Master or Mistress. NOTHING could be farther from the truth. A Competent Master and a Competent Mistress have had years of involvement and have learned their craft. They realise and accept the responsibility for the safety and pleasure of their submissive(s) as much if not more than their own. Thus choose wisely.

As in all things in this blog, if you wish to contact Me for further assistance of any kind, Please do so via email to Sir.Strict@gmail.com

Enjoy your search.

Monday, June 25, 2007

Why Use a Chat Messenger?

I have recently been asked why I use a chat messenger as well as a java based website. Mainly it is to discuss with those I train the various aspects they may be interested in learning, especially for those who cannot travel to take their training in person.

The different chat facilities vary in their operation and reliability and I will attempt to show you what I mean here.

A chat messenger allows you to stay in touch with others you may wish to converse with while out of the java chat rooms you may have encountered. Indeed, if you are reading My blog it is quite likely that W/we met in a java based chat room that you use in your web browser.

Many of them now also incorporate voice communications and video communications as well. Indeed, My chat client of choice is Yahoo Messenger, available from http://messenger.yahoo.com

I have tried MSN Messenger, found at http://get.live.com/messenger/overview,

Aim, found at http://www.aim.com/download.adp,

ICQ, found at http://www.icq.com/download/,

EyeBall Chat, found at http://www.eyeballchat.com/ ,

Meebo, found at found at http://wwwl.meebo.com/ ,

and Yahoo messenger, found at http://messenger.yahoo.com .

Though they all work, and though meebo allows you to connect to the other messenger clients as well, much of the functionality of Yahoo is lost when shared with other messengers. Thus, I suggest that Yahoo is the most stable and most enjoyable messenger software yet available and I suggest that you do your own research on them as well.

As I am not always in the chat room, Yahoo messenger also affords the ability of leaving offline messages which the recipient will get once they log on. When setting yours up it will ask you for an email address. You can give them an existing email address or the one Yahoo will offer you at the time of registration.

Keep in mind that these are all freeware and thus costs you nothing. They enable you to keep in touch, in private, with anyone you add to your list of contacts.

I hope to see you there.

Sir.Strict

Monday, June 11, 2007

Location and other pertenant information

I have recently been asked by various couples to tell them who I am and what My training in this lifestyle entails. Thus, this post will hopefully clear a lot of that up.

Before I begin, I am a white Male Dominant, now aged 66 in June of 2007, who has been training couples in this lifestyle for over 27 years. That means I'm old - not dead - just old. It also means that this blog is based on 27 years experience in this lifestyle. Some others, Dominants and Trainers as well as so called Bulls, may not agree with My points of view, but they are My points of view and I thus state them here for all to see. If you disagree with them, start your own blog and state your views there.

I am located on what is known as the Gold Coast of Queensland, Australia. This is a sub-tropical environment and is also the vacation destination for much of Australia and many from around the world. With almost perfect weather (though we could use a little more rain occasionally) and the 35 miles of public, white sand, optional topless beach on the Coral Sea, and the many Theme Parks in this area (5 in less than 20 miles), and the ability of growing tropical fruit in abundance, this place is truly the mecca for vacationers. Look it up in any of the search engines and you will get an idea of what this is like.

Secondly, I've been asked what the charge is for training a couple in this lifestyle. The simple answer is - nothing. That's right - $0.00. Couples are required to pay for their transportation here, their hotel accommodation and their food once they are here, but I do not make money from this training. I do the training I do as a labor of love to the cuckold community and to ensure that ALL couples start out on the right foot.

During the initial phases of this training (see the contract later in this blog) The woman is given an opportunity first to discuss and talk out any concerns she may have about this lifestyle and any impact she feels it might have on her marriage, IN PRIVATE, with someone with 27 years experience in training couples, who has the knowledge to talk intelligently about it, as well as no ax to grind or hidden agenda to accomplish. Obviously I also do it from a 3rd party standpoint and thus am removed from your family, friends, work colleagues, etc. I can and do also give advice on this subject. Once that is achieved and she is comfortable with it, her training, and ultimately her husbands training (if he wishes to join in) is undertaken.

No one is forced, or coerced into ANYTHING at ANY TIME. This MUST be not only voluntary training in this lifestyle, but sought after as well, and unless I am assured of that, that both the male and female of the couple voluntarily wish this training and are NOT coerced in any way, I walk away. I am NOT going to "force your wife or partner" to take part, nor am I going to "lure her or entice her or seduce her" into the lifestyle just to satisfy your own desires. This lifestyle, I truly believe, is here to ENHANCE your marriage, not screw it up.

If you are still interested in this lifestyle and My training and philosophy, read on. If, at the end of that you wish to email Me to discuss training arrangements with Me, email Me at sir.strict@gmail.com and I will do what I can to assist you both. As I train couples reasonably often, it is necessary to book in advance for any training required. I will also, at that time, allow you to add My nick of Sir.Strict to your yahoo messenger to ensure that communication can be more readily and easily maintained.

I hope to hear from you soon. Be safe, well, and above all, happy.

Sir.Strict - the CuckCplTrainer

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Contact

For some reason I seem unable to change My email address in this blog so I am posting it here in hopes that those wishing to contact Me can do so with ease.

You may, if you wish, contact Me at sir.strict@gmail.com I know the address on the blog is cuckold.dom@gmail.com but I have pretty much ceased to use that account as the name gave the wrong impression - namely that I am also a cuckold. I am not. I have trained cuckold couples for over 27 years now and am not, Myself, a cuckold, but rather a trainer and Dominant Master.

I have trained well in excess of 40 couples in the past 27 years so what I write in My blog on this subject is the result of experience, not some masturbatory fantasy.

I also use yahoo messenger for online contact. If I know you I will let you know the nickname to use on that service to contact Me.

Thank you for reading this series of posts. If I can be of assistance in furthering your knowledge of the cuckold and cuckoldress lifestyle, then I am happy. Note: The training I offer in person here on the Gold Coast of Australia is FREE OF CHARGE. I expect you to pay for your hotel acommodation and food, and travel to and from the Gold Coast, but that is all. I do this to try and enhance the cuckold/cuckoldress experience, not to make money from it.

The lifestyle should, always, enhance your chosen path in marriage, not dissolve that marriage. If you feel it would harm your marriage, then this lifestyle is NOT for you.

Be safe and well.

Sir.Strict (aka the CuckCplTrainer)

Monday, February 12, 2007

Cuckold Humiliation or Not?

The discussion of humiliation of a cuckold is legion in size and complexity mainly because NO two people are the same. It is therefore again, necessary to discuss with the cuckold what his wants, needs, and desires are. One might find that where the other participants, including the Dom/Domme thought that ALL cuckolds wish to be humiliated and are bisexual in nature, is a vastly mistaken assumption.

Some cuckolds do wish to fulfill their bisexual fantasy and be used to provide clean-up duties on their partner and on the other male/female participants. Some wish to also provide “fluffer” (taken from the porn industry where potential porn stars suck the male participants to a level of hardness so that they can perform in front of the camera) duties for anyone chosen to have sex with their cuckoldress. Some wish to be verbally humiliated by being referred to by their partner, their Dom/Domme, or other male and female participants who will use their partner for sex, as “wimp, cocksucker, tiny dick, incompetent, inadequate, cum-sucker, butt-fucker, etc” and the list goes on and on. Some wish to also be used by their cuckoldress or Dom to be taken anally, to suck anyone that the Dom specifies, to provide ANY sexual act asked for, as well as provide cleaning, shaving, dressing, and transport for their cuckoldress (and thus, to some, their Domme) to and from use by her lovers or her Master/Mistress. Others will desire and indeed, need to have their sexual access restricted, not only to their partner but to all other forms of sexual gratification including masturbation. “Cock Cages” are most often used for this humiliation.

However, some cuckolds simply wish to watch their cuckoldress being used, and to actually ‘join in’ and help provide more sex for her (in the form of providing their cock for oral pleasure from her while she is being serviced by her lover(s) or Dom) and some desire to simply photograph her in the throes of sexual enjoyment with whomever is using her sexually at any given time.

So again, there is no ‘hard and fast’ rule here. The competent Dom, and indeed the cuckold couple, should consider all of these as possibilities and come jointly to a conclusion about the participation level and access to each other, their partner or cuckoldress/cuckold or their Dom/Domme.

Do NOT forget that the Dom/Domme also has wants, needs, and desires and these MUST also be addressed and added to the mix. If communication, true communication, is established, then you will have a successful relationship to build on for ALL participants. Just be totally and completely honest in your discussions and negotiation with each other and you can’t lose. And remember, based on the 20 years plus real life experience I have had, it is not only your right to have this discussion with your partner AND your Dom/Domme, if it is not provided you may well have the wrong partner and/or the wrong Dom/Domme. Without everyone knowing what they are doing is what they all mutually wish to be done by having open honest communication with each other, the relationship is on quicksand to start with and will ultimately fail.

Thank you for reading, and don’t forget to pass on this blog to anyone you think it may help. I can also be contacted via email on sir.strict@gmail.com I also exclusively use Yahoo Messenger as an offline chat client. Email Me with your messenger nick if you wish to be added to My list of contacts for chat.

Sir.Strict

Cuckoldress Humiliation or not?

I can’t count the number of times I have been asked by a cuckoldress or a potential one if humiliation is a natural part of the Dom/sub Dom/cuckoldress cuckold/cuckoldress lifestyle. My answer is always the same which states “If you wish it to be, then yes it is. If, however, you wish it NOT to be, then that is where it should go.”

There is a mistaken belief in the cuckold community that EVERY cuckoldress wishes to be humiliated as well. The reality is that some do, some don’t, and if you as a Dom or Domme, or a cuckold for that matter, don’t find out which it is with your particular sub/slave/partner, then your relationship is off to a bad start to begin with. I say that it is a mistaken belief, and I stand by that statement, after training true cuckoldress women and slut females (and males) who want to expand their own sexual horizons, and bring their partner along for the ride.

Some women LOVE humiliation and see it not only as something they desire, but something that is an integral part and a necessity of their own cuckold lifestyle. Possibly it is because some also feel - based on early religious beliefs - that it is the ‘punishment’ they must have for enjoying sex with others than their marital partner. Some simply love the feeling of being humiliated (verbally – as is being called names such as slut, bitch, whore, cum-bucket, cum-slut, or anything else their partner or Dom desire to call her) while others want a more ‘public’ display of their humiliation (being forced to wear sluttish or revealing clothing in public, or being made to perform sexually with others present, or being ‘shared’ with others at her Dom’s command, etc). There are NO hard and fast rules here just as there aren’t in ANY relationship. Each one is different and based entirely on the individuals involved.

Other women have NO desire to be humiliated in ANY sense. They most often see their open sexuality as something to be proud of, something to show to the world, something to use to enhance the pleasure of their Dom or cuckold partner. It can also be simply because they enjoy sex in most, if not all, the ways possible to enjoy it, and don’t feel that they need to be humiliated in any way to achieve that level of enjoyment for themselves or their partners.

So again, it is imperative that ALL of the participants in a cuckold relationship need to engage in open minded, no holes barred, honest participatory discussion, and state what they need from this different relationship. It is, after all, very different from what society tells us we are all supposed to be like. We should all be proud of what we have and enjoy it to the full, be it total humiliation or simply being the best sexual partner (for your cuckold or your Dom/Domme) possible.

Thank you for reading and if you wish to contact Me email Me at sir.strict@gmail.com or ask Me to add you to My yahoo messenger list of contacts by providing Me with your screen name there.

And please pass this on to anyone you think could benefit from the advice contained herein. Thank you.

Sir.Strict

Negotiation

In a cuckold relationship those with little or no real life experience think that there is no real negotiation either between the cuckoldress and her cuckold, or between either/both of them and a good Dom. Noting that I said “a good Dom”, and based on 20 years plus real life experience in this lifestyle, nothing could be farther from the truth.

Communication is the keystone to any successful relationship, be it vanilla, cuckold, Dom/sub, or any other combination one can think of. When any relationship is in it’s infancy it is imperative that meaningful and honest communication between participants and potential participants takes place to ensure that everyone is on the same page, or, at least know what page each participant is on. The same holds true in any cuckold relationship as well, and a competent Dom needs to assess what the couple (or cuckoldress or cuckold) are/is looking for to enhance their own existence. If (and this can be a VERY BIG IF) the wants, needs, and desires of all of the participants mesh in some meaningful way, then ALL will be happy with the outcome. If they don’t at least you know from the start that it isn’t what you want.

Thus, I cannot stress enough the necessity to discuss with any submissive/slave cuckoldress/cuckold couple what their particular desires, wants, needs, and wishes are. You may well find that they, in some ways, mirror those of a vanilla relationship – with the added spice that this particular kind of relationship can bring.

If you are a Dom or Domme, sit your submissive/slave cuckoldress/cuckold individual or couple down and discuss with them openly what they want the relationship to be and what they see as their own role to fulfill their own desires is. Also don’t be afraid to state openly what YOU need as well from the relationship. Then, and ONLY then, will you know if you have the basis to continue on with a good, well planned, well thought out relationship which will be to everyone’s benefit and enjoyment.

If you are a cuckoldress or a cuckold, the same advice applies. Ask your Dom/Domme or partner to discuss with you exactly what your relationship should contain and not contain to ensure it is built on solid ground and will last. It is your right to know where everyone stands so ask for this consultation. If it is not freely given, you have the wrong Dom/Domme or the wrong partner.

This may be and sound blunt, and it is – purposefully so. It is based on a lot of real life experience over a lot of years, not fantasy, and though it may not be what you “wish” it were, I can assure you it is the truth as I have lived it. Ignore it at your own peril.

I shall write more to explain aspects of the cuckoldress and cuckold “wish list” that many may not have considered, and yet are prime necessities to those involved. Thank you for reading and please, pass on this site to any you think could benefit from it.

Sir.Strict

Tuesday, January 9, 2007

Repost of In Person Contract

Hello and welcome back.

When I train a cuckold couple that training usually is 2 weeks in length and takes place on the Gold Coast of Queensland Australia. I have trained to a limited degree, couples online but obviously the results obtainable in a face to face training is unsurpassed.

So dear reader - remember that this "contract" is between Myself as the trainer and the cuckold couple, or cuckoldress or cuckold involved. Do not take the dates etc as being something you must do. This is for your interest and understanding only:

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Below is a description of what I, as a Cuckold Couple Trainer, do in person, how I do it, how it is run, and what you need to do to have your cuckoldress or yourself as the cuckold trained to become a slut by Me. You are to read it, and then return it to Me with the words "I agree" or "I have done as told" attached to each section of this contract.

You will then make any and all travel arrangements to arrive at Coolangatta airport on the dates specified, and will contact the hotel I use and make your partners as well as your reservations and pay for them in advance. Note: I do NOT have a financial interest in this or any other hotel. I simply have found that it is clean, well cared for, and has a lovely outlook over the sea, with nice walking areas surrounding it as well.

Next you will IMMEDIATELY inform Me of the detals of the arrangements you have made so that I may inform any male or female training assistants of their need, in the hopes that they will be free to accommodate any training or use to have intercourse with your slut that is required. These people are very busy business people and are not always available. Thus it is imperative that as soon as you have made arrangements, that you inform Me of them so that I can contact and book them.

Note: NO ONE will be allowed to sexually use your slut/partner until you are present to witness it and then it will ONLY take place at his/her/your combined request. The description and contract follow:

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1. First of all I do NOT send photos of the males or females I use to train My sluts to ANYONE. I have various males and females that I use to assist Me in training sluts and I and they, will NOT be "coaxed" into ANYTHING so unprofessional and childish as sending cock picks for you to see. If you want to see a photo of a male cock, do a web search for one.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )



2. I have ONE black male that I call on to service those who wish it, but ONLY ONE. This is not a "Takeaway" where you choose how many orders of "black" or "white" meat to have, with a side order of "a bisexual female". I, and ONLY I, will choose who is allowed to train and use your slut after her initial training with you present, NO one else. I will consider all requests and, because I know the people involved, then make that decision based on My knowledge of you both.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

3. The fact that you have to travel to the Gold Coast is not My responsibility. This is where it happens in safety and comfort, it is where I supply the training and sex in safety and comfort AND the ability for you to watch as other males (and occasionally females) use her/him and give her/him the orgasms she/he so rightly deserves, NOT anywhere else.


I agree: signed - (male ) (female )


4. Your wife/partner will be required to be here "On Her Own" for 5 DAYS BEFORE YOU get to join her and see anything. Her training will be comprehensive and complete (and no, she will not be allowed to have intercourse with anyone until you are present).

Her initial training, which is by Me alone, is necessary to psychologically train her to be a competent slut for you in future. That training will be done exclusively by Me and is mainly composed of giving her the opportunity to discuss her fears of involvement in this lifestyle, as well as her wants, needs, and desires, without outside interference (including you) not allowing her to express her true feelings. I do not "convince" anyone, but I do "allow them to critically look at those questions with a somewhat disinterested older man who has helped others", away from the pressures of family, friends, and work colleagues.


Also know that I WILL NOT HAVE INTERCOURSE WITH YOUR WIFE - EVER, not before, during and/or not after training. I do not have intercourse with any slut Myself. I will, however, be responsible for her oral training to ensure she is also an accomplished oral practitioner for you and others to enjoy. Because of the nature of the training no one, including you, will be allowed to be present during this initial 5 days of training. Once it is finished, and she is ready to try taking on other men for you, then, and ONLY then will you or anyone else be allowed to be present.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )



5. Therefore, IF you are serious, and IF you wish Me to proceed, you will book her into the "HotelNameWithheld" (near Surfers Paradise - see the hotel website supplied at the time) which is a medium priced, clean, nice hotel where she (and ultimately you) will stay. This is where all of the training and you watching her being pleasured and brought to crashing orgasm again and again by other men (and women if she wishes) as she should be, will take place. Depending on the season (see Make A Booking on the website) the room rate is $$$$ per night and you can, and will, book and pay for the entire stay online and then inform Me you have done so.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

I have done as told: signed - (male ) (female )


The booking is to be for 10 NIGHTS MINIMUM (longer if you wish - please discuss with Me), beginning on any Monday in what ever month and date W/we agree on. And, before you wonder, No, I get nothing at all from the hotel. I simply have found that it provides the environment I need to successfully train ANY slut for ANY husband to use or to watch others use.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

6. IF arrangements are made to arrive on a Monday morning, I will personally endeavor to pick your wife/partner up from the Gold Coast (Coolangatta) airport (and thus require her flight details well in advance) and transport her/him to their hotel on arrival. Her psychological training, with ME exclusively, will commence on her arrival. You may join her on the following Saturday but NOT until then. You will make your own way to the hotel from the airport. The other males (and/or females) will be brought in one at a time initially if asked for, starting on the Monday following your arrival with you present.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )


7. You will be allowed to photograph her being used by these men (and women if that is also arranged) if you BOTH agree that you wish photographic evidence of this play, but you are NOT allowed to show the men's or women's faces who use her at ANY time. ALL photographs become your property - but will be vetted by Me to ensure that the above is complied with. You may also participate in what ever manner W/we have agreed to with her male studs. Indeed if you wish, you will also be allowed to suck the males to make them hard to start with, and you may also suck them clean once they have finished using her. You may also be allowed to suck any sperm or ejaculate they leave in her when they have finished with her. If it is your desire, you will also be photographed servicing these men.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )



NOTE: Those are the terms. There is NO change allowed to this timetable of events. I have found, over the past 27 years I have provided this service for sluts and their cuckolds, that it is necessary and the one type of training that works to achieve the results required. I take pride in My work, and rely on My experience in training others. Thus I do NOT take kindly to being questioned. So make up your mind now, and get back to Me within the next Three Days with your agreement or your non-acceptance.


If you do not agree you are back on your own and you will need to find someone else to fulfil your fantasy. History has shown that this is not easily accomplished in safety, comfort, and with complete satisfaction. This is what I do, and I provide the safety (physically as well as STD and Sexual safety) that most others do not.


I await your answer within THREE days from the sending of this information to you.

Sir.Strict - THE CuckCplTrainer

Friday, January 5, 2007

The so-called "Online Only" contract

Hello all.
There are times when physical one on one contact is not possible. IN those cases I have also devised a method of training which this contract will explain. Read it but remember, it is for those who desire training with this Old One.

Thank you for your interest.

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Below is a description of what I, as a Cuckold Slut Trainer, do in online training, how I do it, how it is run, and what you need to do to be trained or to have your cuckoldress trained as a slut by Me in an online only environment. You are to read it, and then return it to Me with the words "I agree" or "I have done as instructed" attached to each section of this contract.

You will then make any and all computer purchases or downloads necessary and install them as required. You will then inform Me that you have done so and are ready to participate in this training.

Know this: I consider Myself, because of My 26 years experience of training sluts online, a professional slut trainer of both females and males. Thus you will read and comply with every part of the following or I will discontinue communication with you. I do NOT play games online, I train, and I will not waste My time with players and fakes.

The description and contract follow:

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1. First of all I do NOT send photos of My sluts nor ANYONE I have ever trained to ANYONE. I will NOT be "coaxed" into Anything so unprofessional and childish as sending cock picks for you to see. If you want to see a photo of a male cock, do a web search for one.

2. I am not black, I am white. This is not a "Takeaway" where you choose how many orders of "black" or "white" meat to have, with a side order of " * * * * * ". I, and ONLY I, will choose what your training will entail, NO one else.

3. Your online participation will be required when I say, and in what ever manner I say.

4. Much of My training is through the use of yahoo messenger, a headset mic, and a webcam. If you do not have Messenger, download it and install it from http://messenger.yahoo.com/and add Sir_Strict_Aus to your list of contacts. Copy and paste that into your messenger to ensure that it is entered correctly.

5. If you cannot use Messenger (and though many have said they can't I have yet to see ANY computer that can't use it, and I lectured in computer use and the Internet in two different universities in two different countries for over 20 years - so trust Me, I've seen them all) apparently MSN will now "talk" to Yahoo messenger. You may attempt to add Me at yahoo messenger in the same way in your MSN client, but know that if it does not work, you will be required to use yahoo messenger as well.

6. If you do not have a webcam, and/or the ability to hear sounds and speak through some kind of microphone to Me, you will be required to purchase them and install them. As stated above, that is how I do the majority of My training, online through the use of a webcam and a voice device. I recommend the use of a headset mic (headphones with a small microphone that sits alongside your mouth) so that I can "talk" to you over the internet as well as "see" you over the internet. If you don't like using these devices and thus will not obtain and use them, then find someone else to provide your training. This is the ONLY way I will provide training for you.

7. Therefore, IF you are serious, and IF you wish Me to proceed, you will obtain anything I have mentioned above, install it, add Me to your list of contacts, and then inform Me you have done so.

8. I will personally tailor your training to your particular needs. If you are a single individual you will do as you are told by Me and you will comply with any "exercises" I give you to complete. If you are a couple, you will both comply with what I tell you to do. Initially I would prefer that you are both trained individually online, though this may change as your training proceeds to training sessions involving both of you online at the same time.

9. You will communicate in some way (email/message on yahoo messenger) with Me every single day until your training is complete. Your message need not be long, but should inform Me that you are well and when W/we will next continue with your training.

10. I am not here as someone to "get you off". I am here to train you to be a competent slut (female or male) and I will achieve that if you follow My directives. If you have a compliant partner, they are to also be informed of My training with you, and I will wish to speak to them as well to ensure that you

a) have permission for your training and/or

b) are encouraged, when I am not online with you, to fulfil your training as directed. In this way your training will become a part of your normal life and you will ultimately reap the benefits more fully.


NOTE: Those are the terms. There is NO change allowed to this timetable or content of events. I have found, over the past 26 years I have provided this service for sluts and their cuckolds, that it is necessary to be done in this manner, and is the one type of training that works to achieve the results required.

I take pride in My work, and rely on My experience in training others. Thus I do NOT take kindly to being questioned. So make up your mind now, and get back to Me within the next Three Days with your aggrement or your non-acceptance.

If you do not agree and accept fully all of the provisions stated above, you are back on your own and you will need to find someone else to fulfil your fantasy. History has shown that this is not easily accomplished in safety, comfort, and with complete satisfaction. This is what I do, and I provide the safety online that most others do not.

I await your answer within THREE days from the sending of this information to you.

Sir.Strict - THE CuckCplTrainer

The Necessity for Contracts

Hello and welcome back.
When I train a cuckold couple that training usually is 2 weeks in length and takes place on the Gold Coast of Queensland Australia. I have trained to a limited degree, couples online but obviously the results obtainable in a face to face training is unsurpassed.
So dear reader - remember that this "contract" is between Myself as the trainer and the cuckold couple, or cuckoldress or cuckold involved. Do not take the dates etc as being something you must do. It is for your interest and understanding only:

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Below is a description of what I, as a Cuckold Slut Trainer, do in person, how I do it, how it is run, and what you need to do to have your cuckoldress trained as a slut by Me. You are to read it, and then return it to Me with the words "I agree" or "I have done as told" attached to each section of this contract.

You will then make any and all travel arrangements to arrive at Coolangatta airport on the dates specified, and will contact the hotel I use and make your partners as well as your reservations and pay for them in advance.
Next you will IMMEDIATELY inform Me of the detals of the arrangements you have made so that I may inform any Male or Female training assistants of their need, in the hopes that they will be free to accommodate any training or use to fuck your slut that is required. These are very busy people and are not always available. Thus it is imperative that as soon as you have made arrangements, that you inform Me of them so that I can contact and book them.
Note: NO ONE will be allowed to fuck your slut/partner until you are present to witness it. The description and contract follow:
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1. First of all I do NOT send photos of the males or females I use to train My sluts to ANYONE. I have various males and females that I use to assist Me in training sluts and I and they, will NOT be "coaxed" into ANYTHING so unprofessional and childish as sending cock picks for you to see. If you want to see a photo of a male cock, do a web search for one.
I agree: signed - (male ) (female )
2. I have ONE black male that I call on to service those who wish it, but ONLY ONE. This is not a "Takeaway" where you choose how many orders of "black" or "white" meat to have, with a side order of "a bisexual female". I, and ONLY I, will choose who is allowed to fuck and use your slut after her initial training with you present, NO one else.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

3. The fact that you have to travel to the Gold Coast is not My responsibility. This is where it happens in safety and comfort, it is where I supply the training and sex in safety and comfort AND the ability for you to watch as other males (and occasionally females) use her and give her the orgasms she so rightly deserves, NOT anywhere else.
I agree: signed - (male ) (female )
4. Your wife/partner will be required to be here "On Her Own" for 5 DAYS BEFORE YOU get to join her and see anything. Her training will be comprehensive and complete (and no, she will not be fucked by anyone until you are present). Her initial training by Me alone is necessary to psychologically train her to be a competent slut for you in future. That training will be done exclusively by Me.
Also know that I WILL NOT FUCK YOUR WIFE - EVER, not during or after training. I do not fuck any slut Myself. I will be responsible for her oral training however to ensure she is also an accomplished oral slut for you. Because of the nature of the training no one, including you, will be allowed to be present during this initial 5 days of training. Once it is finished, and she is ready to try fucking other men for you, then, and ONLY then will you or anyone else be allowed to be present.
I agree: signed - (male ) (female )
5. Therefore, IF you are serious, and IF you wish Me to proceed, you will book her into the *Name withheld in the interest of security* Hotel in Southport, Queensland (next to Surfers Paradise - see