The discussion of humiliation of a cuckold is legion in size and complexity mainly because NO two people are the same. It is therefore again, necessary to discuss with the cuckold what his wants, needs, and desires are. One might find that where the other participants, including the Dom/Domme thought that ALL cuckolds wish to be humiliated and are bisexual in nature, is a vastly mistaken assumption.
Some cuckolds do wish to fulfill their bisexual fantasy and be used to provide clean-up duties on their partner and on the other male/female participants. Some wish to also provide “fluffer” (taken from the porn industry where potential porn stars suck the male participants to a level of hardness so that they can perform in front of the camera) duties for anyone chosen to have sex with their cuckoldress. Some wish to be verbally humiliated by being referred to by their partner, their Dom/Domme, or other male and female participants who will use their partner for sex, as “wimp, cocksucker, tiny dick, incompetent, inadequate, cum-sucker, butt-fucker, etc” and the list goes on and on. Some wish to also be used by their cuckoldress or Dom to be taken anally, to suck anyone that the Dom specifies, to provide ANY sexual act asked for, as well as provide cleaning, shaving, dressing, and transport for their cuckoldress (and thus, to some, their Domme) to and from use by her lovers or her Master/Mistress. Others will desire and indeed, need to have their sexual access restricted, not only to their partner but to all other forms of sexual gratification including masturbation. “Cock Cages” are most often used for this humiliation.
However, some cuckolds simply wish to watch their cuckoldress being used, and to actually ‘join in’ and help provide more sex for her (in the form of providing their cock for oral pleasure from her while she is being serviced by her lover(s) or Dom) and some desire to simply photograph her in the throes of sexual enjoyment with whomever is using her sexually at any given time.
So again, there is no ‘hard and fast’ rule here. The competent Dom, and indeed the cuckold couple, should consider all of these as possibilities and come jointly to a conclusion about the participation level and access to each other, their partner or cuckoldress/cuckold or their Dom/Domme.
Do NOT forget that the Dom/Domme also has wants, needs, and desires and these MUST also be addressed and added to the mix. If communication, true communication, is established, then you will have a successful relationship to build on for ALL participants. Just be totally and completely honest in your discussions and negotiation with each other and you can’t lose. And remember, based on the 20 years plus real life experience I have had, it is not only your right to have this discussion with your partner AND your Dom/Domme, if it is not provided you may well have the wrong partner and/or the wrong Dom/Domme. Without everyone knowing what they are doing is what they all mutually wish to be done by having open honest communication with each other, the relationship is on quicksand to start with and will ultimately fail.
Thank you for reading, and don’t forget to pass on this blog to anyone you think it may help. I can also be contacted via email on sir.strict@gmail.com I also exclusively use Yahoo Messenger as an offline chat client. Email Me with your messenger nick if you wish to be added to My list of contacts for chat.
Sir.Strict
Some cuckolds do wish to fulfill their bisexual fantasy and be used to provide clean-up duties on their partner and on the other male/female participants. Some wish to also provide “fluffer” (taken from the porn industry where potential porn stars suck the male participants to a level of hardness so that they can perform in front of the camera) duties for anyone chosen to have sex with their cuckoldress. Some wish to be verbally humiliated by being referred to by their partner, their Dom/Domme, or other male and female participants who will use their partner for sex, as “wimp, cocksucker, tiny dick, incompetent, inadequate, cum-sucker, butt-fucker, etc” and the list goes on and on. Some wish to also be used by their cuckoldress or Dom to be taken anally, to suck anyone that the Dom specifies, to provide ANY sexual act asked for, as well as provide cleaning, shaving, dressing, and transport for their cuckoldress (and thus, to some, their Domme) to and from use by her lovers or her Master/Mistress. Others will desire and indeed, need to have their sexual access restricted, not only to their partner but to all other forms of sexual gratification including masturbation. “Cock Cages” are most often used for this humiliation.
However, some cuckolds simply wish to watch their cuckoldress being used, and to actually ‘join in’ and help provide more sex for her (in the form of providing their cock for oral pleasure from her while she is being serviced by her lover(s) or Dom) and some desire to simply photograph her in the throes of sexual enjoyment with whomever is using her sexually at any given time.
So again, there is no ‘hard and fast’ rule here. The competent Dom, and indeed the cuckold couple, should consider all of these as possibilities and come jointly to a conclusion about the participation level and access to each other, their partner or cuckoldress/cuckold or their Dom/Domme.
Do NOT forget that the Dom/Domme also has wants, needs, and desires and these MUST also be addressed and added to the mix. If communication, true communication, is established, then you will have a successful relationship to build on for ALL participants. Just be totally and completely honest in your discussions and negotiation with each other and you can’t lose. And remember, based on the 20 years plus real life experience I have had, it is not only your right to have this discussion with your partner AND your Dom/Domme, if it is not provided you may well have the wrong partner and/or the wrong Dom/Domme. Without everyone knowing what they are doing is what they all mutually wish to be done by having open honest communication with each other, the relationship is on quicksand to start with and will ultimately fail.
Thank you for reading, and don’t forget to pass on this blog to anyone you think it may help. I can also be contacted via email on sir.strict@gmail.com I also exclusively use Yahoo Messenger as an offline chat client. Email Me with your messenger nick if you wish to be added to My list of contacts for chat.
Sir.Strict
