I have recently been asked why I use a chat messenger as well as a java based website. Mainly it is to discuss with those I train the various aspects they may be interested in learning, especially for those who cannot travel to take their training in person.
The different chat facilities vary in their operation and reliability and I will attempt to show you what I mean here.
A chat messenger allows you to stay in touch with others you may wish to converse with while out of the java chat rooms you may have encountered. Indeed, if you are reading My blog it is quite likely that W/we met in a java based chat room that you use in your web browser.
Many of them now also incorporate voice communications and video communications as well. Indeed, My chat client of choice is Yahoo Messenger, available from http://messenger.yahoo.com
I have tried MSN Messenger, found at http://get.live.com/messenger/overview,
Aim, found at http://www.aim.com/download.adp,
ICQ, found at http://www.icq.com/download/,
EyeBall Chat, found at http://www.eyeballchat.com/ ,
Meebo, found at found at http://wwwl.meebo.com/ ,
and Yahoo messenger, found at http://messenger.yahoo.com .
Though they all work, and though meebo allows you to connect to the other messenger clients as well, much of the functionality of Yahoo is lost when shared with other messengers. Thus, I suggest that Yahoo is the most stable and most enjoyable messenger software yet available and I suggest that you do your own research on them as well.
As I am not always in the chat room, Yahoo messenger also affords the ability of leaving offline messages which the recipient will get once they log on. When setting yours up it will ask you for an email address. You can give them an existing email address or the one Yahoo will offer you at the time of registration.
Keep in mind that these are all freeware and thus costs you nothing. They enable you to keep in touch, in private, with anyone you add to your list of contacts.
I hope to see you there.
Sir.Strict
Monday, June 25, 2007
Monday, June 11, 2007
Location and other pertenant information
I have recently been asked by various couples to tell them who I am and what My training in this lifestyle entails. Thus, this post will hopefully clear a lot of that up.
Before I begin, I am a white Male Dominant, now aged 66 in June of 2007, who has been training couples in this lifestyle for over 27 years. That means I'm old - not dead - just old. It also means that this blog is based on 27 years experience in this lifestyle. Some others, Dominants and Trainers as well as so called Bulls, may not agree with My points of view, but they are My points of view and I thus state them here for all to see. If you disagree with them, start your own blog and state your views there.
I am located on what is known as the Gold Coast of Queensland, Australia. This is a sub-tropical environment and is also the vacation destination for much of Australia and many from around the world. With almost perfect weather (though we could use a little more rain occasionally) and the 35 miles of public, white sand, optional topless beach on the Coral Sea, and the many Theme Parks in this area (5 in less than 20 miles), and the ability of growing tropical fruit in abundance, this place is truly the mecca for vacationers. Look it up in any of the search engines and you will get an idea of what this is like.
Secondly, I've been asked what the charge is for training a couple in this lifestyle. The simple answer is - nothing. That's right - $0.00. Couples are required to pay for their transportation here, their hotel accommodation and their food once they are here, but I do not make money from this training. I do the training I do as a labor of love to the cuckold community and to ensure that ALL couples start out on the right foot.
During the initial phases of this training (see the contract later in this blog) The woman is given an opportunity first to discuss and talk out any concerns she may have about this lifestyle and any impact she feels it might have on her marriage, IN PRIVATE, with someone with 27 years experience in training couples, who has the knowledge to talk intelligently about it, as well as no ax to grind or hidden agenda to accomplish. Obviously I also do it from a 3rd party standpoint and thus am removed from your family, friends, work colleagues, etc. I can and do also give advice on this subject. Once that is achieved and she is comfortable with it, her training, and ultimately her husbands training (if he wishes to join in) is undertaken.
No one is forced, or coerced into ANYTHING at ANY TIME. This MUST be not only voluntary training in this lifestyle, but sought after as well, and unless I am assured of that, that both the male and female of the couple voluntarily wish this training and are NOT coerced in any way, I walk away. I am NOT going to "force your wife or partner" to take part, nor am I going to "lure her or entice her or seduce her" into the lifestyle just to satisfy your own desires. This lifestyle, I truly believe, is here to ENHANCE your marriage, not screw it up.
If you are still interested in this lifestyle and My training and philosophy, read on. If, at the end of that you wish to email Me to discuss training arrangements with Me, email Me at sir.strict@gmail.com and I will do what I can to assist you both. As I train couples reasonably often, it is necessary to book in advance for any training required. I will also, at that time, allow you to add My nick of Sir.Strict to your yahoo messenger to ensure that communication can be more readily and easily maintained.
I hope to hear from you soon. Be safe, well, and above all, happy.
Sir.Strict - the CuckCplTrainer
Before I begin, I am a white Male Dominant, now aged 66 in June of 2007, who has been training couples in this lifestyle for over 27 years. That means I'm old - not dead - just old. It also means that this blog is based on 27 years experience in this lifestyle. Some others, Dominants and Trainers as well as so called Bulls, may not agree with My points of view, but they are My points of view and I thus state them here for all to see. If you disagree with them, start your own blog and state your views there.
I am located on what is known as the Gold Coast of Queensland, Australia. This is a sub-tropical environment and is also the vacation destination for much of Australia and many from around the world. With almost perfect weather (though we could use a little more rain occasionally) and the 35 miles of public, white sand, optional topless beach on the Coral Sea, and the many Theme Parks in this area (5 in less than 20 miles), and the ability of growing tropical fruit in abundance, this place is truly the mecca for vacationers. Look it up in any of the search engines and you will get an idea of what this is like.
Secondly, I've been asked what the charge is for training a couple in this lifestyle. The simple answer is - nothing. That's right - $0.00. Couples are required to pay for their transportation here, their hotel accommodation and their food once they are here, but I do not make money from this training. I do the training I do as a labor of love to the cuckold community and to ensure that ALL couples start out on the right foot.
During the initial phases of this training (see the contract later in this blog) The woman is given an opportunity first to discuss and talk out any concerns she may have about this lifestyle and any impact she feels it might have on her marriage, IN PRIVATE, with someone with 27 years experience in training couples, who has the knowledge to talk intelligently about it, as well as no ax to grind or hidden agenda to accomplish. Obviously I also do it from a 3rd party standpoint and thus am removed from your family, friends, work colleagues, etc. I can and do also give advice on this subject. Once that is achieved and she is comfortable with it, her training, and ultimately her husbands training (if he wishes to join in) is undertaken.
No one is forced, or coerced into ANYTHING at ANY TIME. This MUST be not only voluntary training in this lifestyle, but sought after as well, and unless I am assured of that, that both the male and female of the couple voluntarily wish this training and are NOT coerced in any way, I walk away. I am NOT going to "force your wife or partner" to take part, nor am I going to "lure her or entice her or seduce her" into the lifestyle just to satisfy your own desires. This lifestyle, I truly believe, is here to ENHANCE your marriage, not screw it up.
If you are still interested in this lifestyle and My training and philosophy, read on. If, at the end of that you wish to email Me to discuss training arrangements with Me, email Me at sir.strict@gmail.com and I will do what I can to assist you both. As I train couples reasonably often, it is necessary to book in advance for any training required. I will also, at that time, allow you to add My nick of Sir.Strict to your yahoo messenger to ensure that communication can be more readily and easily maintained.
I hope to hear from you soon. Be safe, well, and above all, happy.
Sir.Strict - the CuckCplTrainer
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Contact
For some reason I seem unable to change My email address in this blog so I am posting it here in hopes that those wishing to contact Me can do so with ease.
You may, if you wish, contact Me at sir.strict@gmail.com I know the address on the blog is cuckold.dom@gmail.com but I have pretty much ceased to use that account as the name gave the wrong impression - namely that I am also a cuckold. I am not. I have trained cuckold couples for over 27 years now and am not, Myself, a cuckold, but rather a trainer and Dominant Master.
I have trained well in excess of 40 couples in the past 27 years so what I write in My blog on this subject is the result of experience, not some masturbatory fantasy.
I also use yahoo messenger for online contact. If I know you I will let you know the nickname to use on that service to contact Me.
Thank you for reading this series of posts. If I can be of assistance in furthering your knowledge of the cuckold and cuckoldress lifestyle, then I am happy. Note: The training I offer in person here on the Gold Coast of Australia is FREE OF CHARGE. I expect you to pay for your hotel acommodation and food, and travel to and from the Gold Coast, but that is all. I do this to try and enhance the cuckold/cuckoldress experience, not to make money from it.
The lifestyle should, always, enhance your chosen path in marriage, not dissolve that marriage. If you feel it would harm your marriage, then this lifestyle is NOT for you.
Be safe and well.
Sir.Strict (aka the CuckCplTrainer)
You may, if you wish, contact Me at sir.strict@gmail.com I know the address on the blog is cuckold.dom@gmail.com but I have pretty much ceased to use that account as the name gave the wrong impression - namely that I am also a cuckold. I am not. I have trained cuckold couples for over 27 years now and am not, Myself, a cuckold, but rather a trainer and Dominant Master.
I have trained well in excess of 40 couples in the past 27 years so what I write in My blog on this subject is the result of experience, not some masturbatory fantasy.
I also use yahoo messenger for online contact. If I know you I will let you know the nickname to use on that service to contact Me.
Thank you for reading this series of posts. If I can be of assistance in furthering your knowledge of the cuckold and cuckoldress lifestyle, then I am happy. Note: The training I offer in person here on the Gold Coast of Australia is FREE OF CHARGE. I expect you to pay for your hotel acommodation and food, and travel to and from the Gold Coast, but that is all. I do this to try and enhance the cuckold/cuckoldress experience, not to make money from it.
The lifestyle should, always, enhance your chosen path in marriage, not dissolve that marriage. If you feel it would harm your marriage, then this lifestyle is NOT for you.
Be safe and well.
Sir.Strict (aka the CuckCplTrainer)
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