Sunday, December 10, 2006

Explanations re: This Cuckold Dom

Hello

Because of email I have received in response to this blog, I feel it necessary to state a few things about Myself and My own situation to hopefully lessen the chance of misunderstanding.

First of all, I am located on the Gold Coast of the Australian state of Queensland, a subtropical place I have chosen to retire to because of it's good weather, plentiful tropical and sub-tropical fruit and vegetables as well as good quality beef, pork, lamb, and seafood of every description.

Secondly, I am not an Australian, but rather an American who has chosen to live here. America may be for some, but not this Old One. I grew up there, served in the US Military, got an education there and then left as I could determine where that country was headed and didn't wish to be part of the ride.

Lastly, this blog is based on My own involvement in the cuckold lifestyle over 27 years. I would be the last one to state that the way I view, and even participate, in this lifestyle is certainly not the ONLY way it should be viewed. The participants in this lifestyle vary as widely as they do in any lifestyle. Look at those you see on your street or in your workplace. Do they all look/dress/act/believe/think the same way as you do? Of course not. They do those things as suits their own circumstance and/or personality.
Thus, the cuckold lifestyle varies greatly as well. It varies from a couple who wish to try multiple partners on the one extreme, to a Threesome comprised of:
1. a female desirous of not only every form of sexual gratification she can have but also of control in her life and her activities by a sexual Dominant other than her husband, including being corporally disciplined by that Dominant when she wishes to experience that form of caring by her Master,
2. a male who wishes to also be under the complete control of a sexual Dominant, and who wishes to expand his bisexual desires and thus not only perform maintenance duties on his female partner (bathing, shaving, dressing, etc) but also wishes to be dominated in every aspect of his involvement in the sexual activity of his female partner, to the point of providing not only transport to and from her Master, but also "fluffer" duties when call on to do so and "cleanup" duties on his female partner AND her other sexual partners as well. For those who wish further explanation of those terms - "fluffer" duties means sucking male cocks to sufficient hardness and length to allow them to have intercourse with their female partner, while "cleanup" duties consists of sucking the ejaculate from any place her male sexual partners have left it as well as sucking their cocks clean after they have had sexual relations with the female. He may also be called on to provide his anus for those who wish to use it as well as any other duties the Dominant wishes him to have. Note: this normally also fulfills a strong "humiliation" desire of the cuckold male.

3. a Sexual Dominant (either male or female) who will take total control of both members of the cuckold couple and their sexual activity.

I hope this is of help in understanding this blog and this lifestyle. I am alwys ready and happy to receive email from anyone about this blog.
May you be well, happy, and safe at all times.
The Cuckold Dom